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#NewNeverFapper Reddit Guidelines

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1.

Introduction

As part of my initiative to help as many people as possible, I am willing to offer personalised advice if you post in our subreddit with the tag #NewNeverFapper in your title.

Obviously there's quite a lot of information here on NeverFap Deluxe and it can be confusing knowing how to start, especially when you're already struggling with existing issues.

However, with personalised advice you will be able to better understand exactly what it is you need to do in order to succeed with your recovery.

Alternatively, I also offer Personal Coaching for those interested in receiving additional help from someone who's already been there before.

I offer an initial FREE 10 Minute Consultation for those interested in building a relationship and working together in order to help you achieve your goals.

2.

Reddit Guidelines

What information you choose to post is entirely up to you, and I encourage you to write as little or as much as you want!

Obviously the more information you provide, the easier it will be to understand where you're coming from, as well as better understand what you need help with.

Here are some helpful suggestions.

Information:

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3.

Community

My intention with the NeverFap Deluxe subreddit is to create a thriving community of informed citizens, who as a collective are approaching their porn addiction recovery in the most efficient way possible.

Which is to say that I want people to be approaching their porn addiction recovery the right way from day 1 of their journey.

This is what I believe will separate r/NeverFapDeluxe from other communities such as r/NoFap which do not have a firm strategy in place to actually help people overcome their porn addiction.

More often than not, I see hopelessness and poor mental health practice become the main narrative that dominates the conversation, with other porn addicts.

Because we're starting out as a small community of dedicated individuals, we'll be able to combat this helpless with healthy and empowering coping mechanisms, in order to educate others correctly.

4.

Next Steps

Well, what are you waiting for?

In addition to asking me questions, it's probably a good idea to go over the NeverFap Deluxe website since I'm pretty much going to be regurgitating what's written here.

Our wonderful selection of NeverFap Deluxe Articles are a great place to start in terms of binging on the knowledge of what is clearly anti-porn propaganda funded by the Mormon Church.

Oh, not to mention the NeverFap Deluxe Guide which has been wholly funded by extreme Catholic radicalists, drenched in the blood of the Eucharist.

I actually have no idea what I'm talking about, but have an apple.

Further Questions?

Head on down to our NeverFap Deluxe subreddit or Discord channel where myself and others can help you with your questions.

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Latest Articles

The Most Important Thing Porn Addicts Don't Do

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This article describes how porn addicts delay their recovery by not properly engaging with the process.

Summary:

  • The most important thing porn addicts don't do is consciously engage with their mind.
  • Instead, they remain within their own comfort zone, often without realising it.

Why You May Be Struggling With Your Meditation

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In this article we discuss some of the way people may struggle with practicing meditation in general.

Summary:

  • The purpose of meditation is to help you maintain balance.
  • It can help to think of meditation as a form of observation, no different to seeing or smelling.

What Is Sex Like Post Recovery?

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What is sex like once you've fully recovered from porn addiction? Well, it's great. No questions asked.

Summary:

  • Put simply, it's great.
  • However, chances are that your issues with sex extend well-beyond your porn addiction.

The Fallacy Of Willpower

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In this article I discuss how willpower is used to create a false sense of hope, as well as how it's simply an ineffective way of thinking about recovery.

Summary:

  • Willpower merely cultivates a false sense of hope.
  • The alternative to willpower is to engage in conscious change.

What Does It Mean To Relapse?

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In this article I explore the definition of relapse, and how this whole idea of relapse is entirely counter-productive to our recovery.

Summary:

  • Relapse is a pointless concept which does nothing to empower you with positive action.
  • I define relapse as anything which doesn't help you develop control over your mind.

My Personal Meditation Routine

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In this article I discuss my personal meditation routine and how I personally use it to help me maintain balance in life.

Summary:

  • At a minimum I meditate 10 minutes each day before bed.
  • I also use other opportunities throughout the day to meditate and practice awareness.

When Are You Fully Recovered From Your Porn Addiction?

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You are fully recovered from your porn addiction when you're 100% confident you can deal with any situation without relapsing.

Summary:

  • You are fully recovered when you're 100% confident you can deal with any possible situation without relapsing.
  • For most people (including myself) 100% confidence is impossible, although we can learn to deal with 90% of difficult situations easily.
  • You become able to deal with every possible situation once you develop the skills to remain calm and aware of yourself no matter what.

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