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I offer porn addiction recovery coaching for those seeking more targeted advice from someone who’s been there before.

In most cases, the articles and resources on this website should provide you with all the knowledge necessary to help you overcome your porn addiction.

However, it can be difficult to do alone.

As outlined in My Personal Porn Recovery Journey one of the big things which helped me overcome my porn addiction was coming out to my partner about my mental health issues.

Which is obviously impossible if you don’t have anyone you can trust.

It’s also part of the reason why I run an #accountability program on our Discord Server, so users can receive that level of interaction with other people without feeling judged.

Not to mention, it can help cut through the ambiguity of interpretation of reading my advice on a screen, as opposed to being able to engage with these ideas in person.

Am I meditating correctly? Am I truly maintaining balance? What does it mean to let go? Why do I keep relapsing? Why do I always end up distrusting the process after a few months?

All questions I can provide a definite answer to.


Here are some viable reasons to consider personal coaching.

There are many reasons why you may want to consider personal coaching.

Here are just a few of them.

Ultimately, only you can decide whether you beleive it's worth your time and money.

No different to this website, I'm just another resource for you to utilise throughout your journey.


Here are some of the services which I provide for clients.

There are many different ways I can personally help you achieve your goals.

The below list is largely applicable to most clients.

I can help you as little or as much as you want.

This is why it's important to first establish a relationship so we can discuss how best you would like to be assisted.




There are a few steps to this process in order to ensure you’re receiving the most out my services.

All clients begin with a FREE 10 Minute Consultation so we can discuss how I can best help you.

This is in order to establish an initial relationship, as well as to gauge whether you require personal coaching at all.

Perhaps you might only have a few questions on your mind. Perhaps you may decide that you require on-going assistance.

Usually it becomes quite obvious whether you’ll require additional coaching, and that’s precisely why it’s important that we have this initial meeting.

Because I speak to so many porn addicts each day, it doesn’t take me long to figure out what a person’s problems are, as well as what steps will be required for change.

For example, I can immediately tell if it’s going to take a person years to beat this thing because of their inherent refusal to trust the process (usually as a result of their own excessive cynicism).

As well as if a person is going to struggle with meditation because of their inability to let go of their own thoughts and emotions.

Regardless, I’m more-than-happy to help and provide assistance.

I then charge $45 per hour for any on-going sessions that you feel are necessary.

During these on-going sessions will we cover a wide range of topics, depending on what you require help with.

Which will be first established during our FREE 10 Minute Consultation.


Book A Meeting

If you're still interested in having me coach and guide you, then next steps are to organise an initial consultation so we can learn a bit more about each other in fabulous fashion.

You can personally get in touch with me via email (or via Discord) so I can learn a bit more about you, as well as so we can arrange a time.

I'm personally located in Melbourne Australia. (GMT+11:00)


Next Steps

I hope you now have a proper understanding of how this all works.

Feel free to contact me if you have any questions, or would simply like to chat about arranging a time to catch up.

Further Questions?

Head on down to our NeverFap Deluxe subreddit or Discord where myself and others can help you with your questions.

Personal Coaching?

Let's organise a 10 Minute FREE Consultation so you can understand how The Reade© can help you achieve your goals.

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Why Positive Affirmations Don't Work


In this article I write about positive affirmations and why they don't work as an effective coping strategy.


  • Positive affirmations don't help you remain calm.
  • Positive affirmations are in fact a form of distraction which almost always leads to relapse.

The Utter Pointlessness Of Maintaining A PMO Streak


In this article I write about why maintaining PMO Streaks is an ineffective habit which can set our recovery back.


  • Maintaining PMO Streaks does nothing to help us develop meaningful control over our minds.
  • The alternative is to simply refrain from doing it.

Improvements I've Noticed From My 300+ Day Porn Addiction Recovery Journey


I thought I'd write a summary of some of the changes I've experiencing throughout my 300+ day porn addiction recovery journey.


  • The difference is honestly night and day.
  • I have more energy, I have pure focus and I have literally become a machine of productivity.

Is Masturbation Healthy?


In this article I discuss the dynamics of porn addiction and whether masturbation alone can be considered healthy, both for addicts and non-addicts alike.


  • It is possible to have a healthy relationship with masturbation, assuming you are not a porn addict.
  • Most porn addicts will never have a healthy relationship with masturbation.
  • There is nothing inherently healthy about the act of masturbation itself.

The Most Important Thing Porn Addicts Don't Do


This article describes how porn addicts delay their recovery by not properly engaging with the process.


  • The most important thing porn addicts don't do is consciously engage with their mind.
  • Instead, they remain within their own comfort zone, often without realising it.

Why You May Be Struggling With Your Meditation


In this article we discuss some of the way people may struggle with practicing meditation in general.


  • The purpose of meditation is to help you maintain balance.
  • It can help to think of meditation as a form of observation, no different to seeing or smelling.

What Is Sex Like Post Recovery?


What is sex like once you've fully recovered from porn addiction? Well, it's great. No questions asked.


  • Put simply, it's great.
  • However, chances are that your issues with sex extend well-beyond your porn addiction.

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